Foster family open up their home to a boy no one wants to adopt then discover his true colors (2025)

Everyone deserves a forever home, especially the countless foster children around the world. More than just a place to stay, what they long to have the most is a family, one that will wholeheartedly accept them.

Mid 2018, Dominique and Kevin Gill opened not only their door but also their hearts to a 10-year-old boy named Andrew. The poor kid’s tragic story badly broke the Gill family, they just can’t believe what had happened to him at such a young age.

Get your tissues ready.

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Andrew was in state custody since he was six. At that time, his biological parents’ legal rights were already terminated for him and his other four siblings. Luckily, his siblings were adopted right away, but not him.

Dominique told TODAY Parents:

“Andrew has four siblings and they were all adopted right away.”

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It broke the poor boy’s heart.

He was just six years old when it all happened, he was just too young to bear all the pain. The bitter experience made him aloof and withdrawn from the people around him. It was like a thin wall that separated him from the rest of the world.

“During his first week with us, he sat in his room with the door closed and looked at old pictures. He didn’t want to talk.”

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Keeping his distance from other people was like his defense mechanism. He has just wanted a small circle since then. He wanted peace by being alone and quiet, he just didn’t want to be hurt again.

Andrew would sometimes “scream and behave badly.”

The kid didn’t feel like he belonged. He tried to push his foster family away from his circle. But that just fueled the fire of desire by the Gills, they didn’t give up on Andrew.

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The didn’t stop loving and caring for him. They didn’t back down an inch because of the young boy’s “bad behavior.” They knew that he needed help and that’s exactly what they gave him.

Then something beautiful happened.

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Dominique’s son, Joc asked Andrew if he wanted to play some video games with him. Surprisingly, the withdrawn kid accepted the invitation and nodded his head.

That became the start of their soon-to-be beautiful friendship.

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Aside from playing video games, they also have one specific thing in common- their love of Pop-Tarts! They love eating toaster snacks!

Being friends with Joc, the family’s undying patience, and continuous love, all eventually made Andrew step out of his shell and break the wall that was dividing him from the people who wanted nothing but to show him love.

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Sadly, people were not used to seeing them in public.

Whenever they are out, the Gills, together with Andrew would still get the occasional stare from the people.

“Because Andrew is white and we’re Black, people will stare at us,” Dominique said. “They’re confused.”

In this world that we live in today, the battle between colors is still an on-going social issue. But in Andrew’s case, he didn’t see it as an issue at all.

In fact, when he was asked about his race preference for his foster parents, he ticked on the “no preference” box. He simply sees this world differently.

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At first, they didn’t plan on adopting him.

They just wanted to be his foster family until the day came that he found his forever family. But after more than a year of being with them, this feeling has tremendously changed.

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They then decided to legally adopt him.

Dominique explained:

“Our mindset was we’d help him until he found his forever home. But after the second adoption didn’t work out, I realized God put Andrew in our lives for a reason. God made sure the adoption didn’t work out so he could come back to us.”

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July 16, 2020

Youth Villages Counselor, Molly Parker invited Andrew for a little walk in the park. While walking, he saw some familiar faces and it got him confused.

It was like they gathered there for a special occasion.

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Andrew shared with WBIR Channel 10:

“I just turned around the corner and saw everybody,” Andrew said, remembering when he saw the Gills surrounded by friends holding signs and balloons.

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The Gills finally had the courage to ask Andrew if he wanted to be a part of their family.

His best buddy was also there wearing a shirt with a printed question on it, “Will you be my brother?”

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The boy unhesitantly said, “Yeah!” His shirt said it too! What a lovely story!

To see Andrew’s touching surprise adoption announcement, watch the video below.

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FAQs

Where do most foster kids end up? ›

Most kids (three in five, according to HHS) will be reunited with their parents or other family members. Additionally, 54,200 kids were adopted from foster care, while 114,000 were waiting to be adopted at the end of the fiscal year.

Why foster and not adopt? ›

Adoption is a permanent decision. Depending on the openness of the adoption, the birth parents may or may not remain in contact with the child and their adoptive family. The goal of foster care, on the other hand, is to give a child a safe and loving home until they can be reunited with their birth parents.

How many children are waiting to be adopted in the US? ›

Following are our responses to some of the questions that are frequently asked about the children in foster care. How many children are awaiting adoption in the United States? Of the 400,000 children in foster care, approximately 117,000 are waiting to be adopted.

What is long-term foster care? ›

Long term fostering (or permanent foster care) means the foster family will care for the child or young person until they reach adulthood. This usually happens when a child or young person is unable to return to their birth family and adoption is not possible.

Why do most foster parents quit? ›

Training. One of the most common reasons qualified foster parents walk away is because they feel ill equipped to deal with challenges they face, especially when older children are introduced into the home. That's what we offer: a comprehensive, trauma-informed training that can give you the tools you need.

How long do most foster kids stay with a family? ›

On average, children and teens stay in the foster care system for 12 to 20 months. The majority of foster youth stay with their foster family for 1 to 5 months. At an average age of 7 years old, many children enter the foster care system as a result of living in an unstable home environment, mistreatment, or neglect.

What if a child doesn't want to be adopted? ›

If, even after talking with them and helping them work through their feelings, your foster child truly doesn't want to be adopted, and if your child's caseworker agrees that adoption with you is not in their best interests, remember that there's nothing stopping you from continuing to foster them or other children.

Why are foster homes better than orphanages? ›

Generous and compassionate caregivers within the orphanage can offer these benefits to the child. With that said, foster care homes provide a family environment for vulnerable children. It also allows them to get proper attention during the most challenging stage. These prove beneficial during this transitional phase.

What age gets adopted the most? ›

Other findings about children who were adopted from the child welfare system: In patterns that have been relatively stable for more than a decade, the majority (54% in 2021) of these adoptees are from birth to age 5, just over 1 in 4 is age 6 to 10, 1 in 6 is 11 to 15 and 4% are older youth ages 16 to 20.

What happens to orphans who don't get adopted? ›

Kids who are not adopted often get passed between many foster and group homes until they age out at age 18-21. Kids with disabilities, including learning disabilities, are twice as likely to age out of the system. Once they have aged out, many of these young vulnerable adults face life alone.

Which state has the most foster children? ›

As of 2021, California has the highest number of foster care placements with 47,871 children currently in care, followed by Texas and Florida with 28,042 and 23,507, respectively.

What is the longest you can foster a child? ›

Long-term placement involves placing a child with a foster family for a prolonged period. This period can range anywhere from two years and upward until the child legally reaches the age of adulthood. This type of placement is based on the length of time and also the style of care provided.

What is short-term foster care? ›

Short term fostering means providing a child or young person with a place to stay until they can return to their own family, or until it becomes evident that they need a more permanent foster placement or possibly adoptive parents.

What percentage of foster kids become successful? ›

25% won't graduate high school. 50% will develop a substance abuse dependence. 70% of young women will become pregnant before age 21. 3% of kids who age out will earn a college degree.

What happens to an adopted child when they turn 18? ›

Parents of adopted children must remember that the legal process does not end when their child turns 18. Even though adoptees may no longer be legally obligated to remain in the care of their adoptive parents at this age, they still require financial and emotional support from them.

What state has the highest foster kids? ›

As of 2021, California has the highest number of foster care placements with 47,871 children currently in care, followed by Texas and Florida with 28,042 and 23,507, respectively. But other states like Minnesota, Illinois, Arizona and Missouri have a higher ratio of foster care placements to the state population.

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