Helping Your Child with Extreme Picky Eating {Book Review} (2024)

by Alisha Grogan MOT, OTR/L | Baby, Picky Eating, School Age Kids, Strategies, Toddlers | 3 comments

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I am thrilled to share with you this fantastic new resource for parents of picky eaters. Actually, to be more specific extreme picky eaters or sometimes called problem feeders, either moniker denoting a child that has a limited variety of foods that they eat on a regular basis. Earlier this month Katja Rowell M.D. and Jennie McGlothlin MS, SLP releasedHelping Your Child with Extreme Picky Eating: A Step-by-Step Guide for Overcoming Selective Eating, Food Aversion, and Feeding DisordersHelping Your Child with Extreme Picky Eating {Book Review} (3)based on years of experience helping children with various feeding struggles as a pediatrician and speech language pathologist, respectively. You may know Katja better as the Feeding Doctor, where she writes about feeding children and family meals. Co-author Jennie works in a clinical setting in Texas.

I was excited when I saw someone sharing the upcoming release of Katja and Jennie’s book and immediately asked if they would be interested in a review (full disclosure: I did receive a free copy). Although, I was fairly confident that the strategies I use, and often share with you, would mesh withtheir suggestions I wasn’t quite sure, of course, until I could read it myself. Despite wanting to share a resource with my readers, it was important that I was giving an honest and thoughtful review of the book. If you have been here before you know I write A LOT about picky eating and establishing healthy mealtime dynamics for the family. Admittedly, I have some strong opinions about feeding children, and sometimes cringe at the advice I hear other’s (some professional, some not) sharing with parents. Said more simply, I am picky about feeding advice. Needless to say, I couldn’t have expected just how much I would agree Katja and Jennie. At times, I felt like I was reading words I often say to parents, which gives me hope that more parents will have the knowledge and thus confidence to help their picky eaters effectively.

Since I gave it away in the first sentence, let me get on with saying why I am so impressed withHelping Your Child with Extreme Picky EatingHelping Your Child with Extreme Picky Eating {Book Review} (4). First of all, the book is well-organized, easy to understand, and strikes the perfect balance between giving all the necessary information without completely overwhelming you. Although, a beginning feeding therapist (or an experienced one that doesn’t use similar strategies) would also benefit from reading this book, it is written for the parent. Moreover, they share loads of research and personal examples that support a program that Jennie developed called STEPS. At the heart of this approach is a structure and routine that will work for your whole family, and allows children to begin to have a positive relationship with food even if they are refusing to eat a lot of it. Ultimately, putting it in place in your own home will allow parents to relax and let go of the tremendous stress they have been carrying around over a picky eating child. Within the pages you will find:

  • Sample scripts or phrases you can use with your child to help with the changes you will be implementing or to navigate through typical tantrum triggers.
  • Examples of how to customize techniques to what works for your own family.
  • Parent exercises to support the strategies you will be implementing.

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I will gladly recommend this book to parents looking to reignin stressful overwhelming mealtimes or to those so tired of worrying about calories and nutrition. The passion the authors have to help families regain (or begin) to have enjoyable mealtimes and foster positive relationships among children is palpable. It is a passion I know well.

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    Stacy E.on April 26, 2016 at 3:20 pm

    The book has great ideas, but in our situation I am trying to figure out how to do the steps. We don’t have a table due to the size of our duplex. Restaurants are a sensory nightmare most of the time. I had to read the book as part of the counseling at his feeding therapy this time. We have been in therapy over two years and nothing is working at home. He will ask for more things at home, but won’t eat it or will only eat a couple of bites.

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      Alishaon May 2, 2016 at 11:19 am

      Great questions Stacy, it can be hard to put it into action… Do you have a kids table, a coffee table, a kitchen island, or even a pop up folding table that you could have meals at? Any of those options can work, of course with the goal of not having the tv on (not sure if that is an issue). The most important factor is that you are creating a routine and a space to eat together. This is HUGE. Have you finished reading the book? Do you feel like you can implement the no pressure environment? That is an important key.

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    Dawnielaon May 29, 2015 at 9:14 pm

    Hello. My son is almost 2 and pretty much exclusively eats crunchy items or smooth foods like pouches or yogurt. When given veggies or fruits cut up, he typically plays with them delicately and places them in his mouth without much prompting. He will kind of move them around the mouth before they fall out. I can’t tell if he is intentionally spitting them out or if they are simply falling out. I would think it was a chewing issue if not for the fact that he manages crunchy items like crackers with no problem. I have tried placing mashed up veggies on crackers and he will sometimes tolerate that. If I place even small pieces of fruit in yogurt he will spit that out. Is it oral motor, sensory or both? I have read your blog almost in its entirety and have gotten some great tips but can’t pinpoint it. He had a feeding eval but is now on a wait list for services. They said he did not have a rotatory chew and suggested a chewy tube but didn’t give me much guidance on how to use it. I would appreciate any help you could give. Thanks!

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Helping Your Child with Extreme Picky Eating {Book Review} (2024)

FAQs

Is being a picky eater ADHD? ›

The sense can be so overwhelming that they are literally repulsed, panicked, or sickened by exposure to it. Researchers at Duke University found a high correlation between selective eating problems and ADHD.

What is the psychology behind picky eaters? ›

Kids are so picky with food for several different reasons. The causes of picky eating can include sensitivity to smells or textures, anxiety, or fear of trying something new.

What is the SOS approach for picky eaters? ›

Discover the differences between Picky Eaters vs Problem Feeders with the Picky Eaters vs Problem Feeders Questionnaire. The SOS Feeding approach focuses on systematic desensitisation which breaks down each part of the eating process into steps: Tolerates, Interacts With, Smells, Touches, Tastes and then finally Eats.

Is there therapy for picky eaters? ›

Feeding therapy can be really fun, and it gives families and picky eaters some new ways to learn about food. To learn more about how to help your child eat and grow better, check out SOS Feeding Solutions at STAR Institute for SPD.

Is Picky Eater autism? ›

Even though picky eating is a common problem, research suggests that it's usually a temporary and normal part of development. However, children with autism often have more chronic feeding problems that go beyond picky eating. This may mean the child won't eat an entire category of food such as proteins or vegetables.

Is picky eating in children linked to anxiety depression and ADHD? ›

They found out that there is a link between selective eating habits (commonly called as picky eating) and psychological disorders. Explaining that the more critical the eating habit is, the more severe the disorder. In addition, picky eating has been associated with other mental issues such as anxiety and depression.

What is the root cause of picky eating? ›

Causes of picky eating include early feeding difficulties, late introduction of lumpy foods at weaning, pressure to eat and early choosiness, especially if the mother is worried by this; protective factors include the provision of fresh foods and eating the same meal as the child.

Are picky eaters born or raised? ›

Some children are naturally more sensitive to taste, smell and texture. Other children develop picky eating habits by modeling their parents' fussy eating habits. Picky eating habits are more likely to develop when parents punish, bribe or reward their children's eating behaviors.

Is picky eating a mental disorder? ›

It's more than “fussy eating”

ARFID was introduced by mental health experts as an eating disorder in 2013. Those with ARFID severely restrict how much food they eat. They may not eat food items with a particular color, aroma, texture, or even brand name. Instead, they may only eat foods with a certain consistency.

What is the one bite rule for picky eaters? ›

'One bite' tactic

Pushing children to eat all the food on their plate or enforcing the "one bite" rule isn't recommended. Instead, parents should let children learn to eat in their own way. Keeping mealtime tactics consistent is also important.

What not to say to a picky eater? ›

To help your child develop a healthy relationship with food, avoid these four toxic phrases:
  • "You can have dessert after you eat your broccoli." ...
  • "If you're quiet, I'll give you a cookie." ...
  • "You have to take one more bite before you can say 'no. ...
  • "It would make me happy if you took three more bites."
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What is the sod approach to feeding? ›

The SOS (Sequential-Oral-Sensory) Approach is a research-backed program that incorporates a whole-child perspective. A child's feeding difficulties are assessed and addressed through a focus on fostering a positive association with mealtime. The approach can be used by therapists working with a child and by parents.

How do you discipline a picky eater? ›

10 Tips to Deal with Picky Eaters
  1. A taste is just a taste! ...
  2. Repeat disliked foods. ...
  3. Involve your child in food preparation. ...
  4. Do not force-feed your child. ...
  5. Set a good example. ...
  6. Remove distractions at mealtime. ...
  7. Do not use food as a method of discipline or reward. ...
  8. Limit drinks before and during a meal.

What is food neophobia? ›

Food neophobia is generally regarded as the reluctance to eat, or the avoidance of, new foods. In contrast, 'picky/fussy' eaters are usually defined as children who consume an inadequate variety of foods through rejection of a substantial amount of foods that are familiar (as well as unfamiliar) to them.

Do picky eaters have sensory issues? ›

Many young children are picky eaters. But, some have food sensory issues that go beyond typical pickiness that can affect long-term nutrition and health. Many young children are picky eaters. While this can be frustrating for parents, most kids usually grow out of this phase before their nutrition actually suffers.

Are eating habits linked to ADHD? ›

Those with ADHD may be likely to forget to eat and to binge later. They may also have trouble planning and shopping ahead, which can result in spur-of-the-moment and uncontrolled eating.

Do people with ADHD crave certain foods? ›

Like many other tasks, it's an even bigger challenge for adults with ADHD. Symptoms like impulsivity make us more prone to give in to cravings for high-fat, high-sugar foods. And the dopamine rush we get from carbohydrates and sweets becomes addictive; it feels as if our brain needs that grilled cheese sandwich.

Is food aversion part of ADHD? ›

ADHD and Sensory Processing Disorder

Signals for hunger, thirst, pain, sleepiness, and toileting may not come naturally to kids with ADHD. While it is widely accepted that poor interoception can lead to food aversions and under eating, it may also contribute to misinterpreting different bodily signals as hunger.

Is pica associated with ADHD? ›

Pica is most commonly seen in children aged 24 or 36 months. Children with learning disabilities and attention deficit hyperactivity disorder have a significant history of pica (1, 2) .

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